This is my cloth diaper wash routine in Prince George, BC. I have moderately hard water and used a top loader.
Fighting Over Wash Routines
It’s not nice and creates unnecessary divides in the cloth diaper community.
Things I like to Wash with Cloth
I totally add things to my cloth diaper laundry, and you can too.
What is a Wash Routine?
A wash routine is the steps that you use to wash your cloth diapers. They are usually the same everytime and become a part of your day-to-day practice in cloth diapering.
Wash routines can be a heated topic of conversation, but cloth diaper laundry is just laundry, and trust me, you know what you’re doing, and you can figure this out.
When in doubt, question everyones credentials, and stick to simple straight-forward answers to cloth diapering.
But What About?
You probably have many more questions because you have been bombarded with a ton of information about water softeners, cycles, detergents, and more.
You can really start with just three steps, and incorporate as you learn. Here’s a few other blog posts that I’ve written to help you understand different parts of the cloth diaper wash routine journey.
Other Great Resources
These are spaces and accounts which I trust to provide cloth diaper wash routine support. If you ever feel like you can’t share your routine with someone… or in a group. Leave. Don’t let spaces that are toxic continue to exist. We don’t need that energy.
All About Cloth Diapers Chat
This Facebook group is open to having conversations around cloth diapering and challenging norms.
Thirsties Baby provides a ton of amazing resources on how to wash cloth diapers from blogs to videos and an incredibly supportive online community.
Contact the Brand
If you’re struggling with a detergent or a diaper, contact the brand or retailer for support. They’ve seen a lot of problems and can help you.
Frequently Asked Questions
What about stained cloth diapers?
Cosmetic. Stains are a normal part of cloth diapering and most prominent on natural fiber diapers and/or when using plant-based detergents.
Stains are cosmetic. You can choose to treat them with a stain remover, or you let them fade with time
The best way to treat stains with the sun. UV rays are a zapper of stains. Try it.
Do I have to use tide?
You do not have to wash your cloth diapers in Tide. Tide is one of the most recommended detergents in the cloth diaper community because this synthetic formula tends to work for a large amount of people.
But you can use whatever detergent you want to use as long as it doesn’t have fabric softeners.
There are different situations where detergents will or will not work for you. For example, plant based detergents are really not the best choice for synthetic fibers like microfiber inserts. But, plant based detergents with a flat, now you’re laughing.
Chatting with cloth diaper parents and directly with cloth diaper detergent brands, I know that detergents and diapering is trial and error. I know that detergent companies spend thousands of dollars into research and development to make products work and that Facebook admins can’t assume that the list of ingreidents will fail to clean diapers. There’s more to conversation and you can use the products you want to use. Don’t let anyone bully you out of it.
Do you rinse cloth diapers before washing?
Do I have to test my water?
It’s a good idea to have a general idea about your water quality. You might already know you have soft water because you use a small amount of soap when washing your hair.
Having a general idea of soft or hard water shapes the conversation about how much detergent to use.
Families with softer water use less, and families with harder water use more.
Do I need to use a water softener with cloth diapers?
Contact your detergent company for more specific advice, but if you are not using a water softener with your regular laundry, you dont’ need to use it with cloth diapers.
Most detergent brands do not recommend additional softeners with their products unless your water is in excess of 400 ppm.
How many times should you wash your cloth diapers before using?
To prep synthetic cloth diapers, wash once.
To prep natural fiber cloth diapers, wash 1-3 times until it begins to absorb.
Some cloth diapers may need additional laundering if high in natural oils.
Can you wash cloth diapers with clothes?
The more I chat with parents in Europe and around the world, the more that American cloth diaper wash routines seem excessive and time constraining.
Many families will shake out the poop, rinse the diaper by hand in the sink, and then wash with the rest of their clothes at night.
This works great for simple cloth diapers, prefolds, flats, and many other styles.
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